Facebook Status

while i am not a good in writing but i still try to pen down my thoughts, emotions and views at times. Today i thought why not write about FACEBOOK STATUS the reason why i thought about it, is that i have heard colleagues and friend saying that why do people have to update about every single they do...why can't they keep it to themselves...are they trying to seek attentions or is it that they dont have anything useful to do....while my view to FACEBOOK STATUS is that its a platform or place to express oneself....in that case the question that arise is why FACEBOOK wall ....if one have to express out than why not talk to friends and lighten up themselves.....but one have to make a note that all are not blessed with good friends, with whom they can laugh and cry...since they dont have such friends does it means that they will keep emotions or expression to themselves, they to want to express it....in such case FACEBOOK  wall is place to express and it feels nice when some1 put a comment on it.....it gives the sense that yes some1 gave a thought over my express and commented on it. And yes at times there are LAME status which even i do example i share about my new red nail polish......its a simple express where i just want to share my joy that i have something new and am feeling good about it......as i believe that  'yes' i have a right to happiness....


So next time when someone update a message just give a thought over it....if u want to comment do it, if you don't want than also it OK.....its just an expression....not an attention seeking tool :-)


So moral of the story keep updating and express which i will even ppl around me like it or not. 

Food when sad n happy

while this one is particularly  dedicated to priyanka my bacha :-) ...sumtime i get pissed up on her n at times she is the soul sister...i think that is a typical girls traits ......she have been insisting me to write a blog on food/cooking...the reason behind is that i love cooking  am passionate about  cooking. i cook when i get pissed up or be it any other xyz reasons...kitchen, cooking and food  are like my vent out zone something like  just like julie and julia.......
so i will soon post new updates about food n wht i have cooked :-) if it turns out to be nice

CHANGE

Like my last post this one is also about thoughts.....i think my mind wanders a lot thats why i get so much of thoughts every now and than.

Any ways joke apart......the thought that is in my mind right now is "changing ourself or own self", why do we tend to change ourself ......is it just because so that some1 esp in our life like us more or whatever (my fav line)

I have heard statements  like...(i want you to behave like i want when u are with me)....and why should i present two face/ personality (as if i am suffering from dual personality effects) when i am not why can ppl accept others the way they are......i should not try to change others,will i like if somebody wants to change me.....

In my case at times i tried to change myself for others like the way they wanted  me  to be but even after constant effort that was not appreciate still they have complain n flaws to point on......so i thought its enough.....now i will change for myself.... :-) 

The main thing that i want to highlight here is that why we try to change others for our ownself....

Good or Bad

Thinking from a long time what to write or not  than i thought why not write about this particular thought of mind.
We always have the habit of saying that this good and this bad/wrong. And i always have this question in mind what exactly is right and wrong ...... i don't know do others feel the same way or not. Is there any chart or table that says that this is what RIGHT  and WRONG /BAD....lets us look into oxford dictionary and see what the definition for GOOD and BAD/WRONG.......... OK ....GOOD  means excellent; pleasant; pleasurable; decent; valid; well-behaved; in fine condition; competent, skilled; positive; having admirable moral values and BAD means harmful; inferior; serious, grave, acute; pernicious, damaging, harmful (e.g. smoking is bad for the health); defective, not working properly; rotten, decayed, spoiled (such as bad meat)......
So if i go according to the meaning  provided by oxford it means that what works for me and  please me is Good and which don't is BAD . For eg- if i ask a auto rickshaw and he agrees to go by the fare that i want to pay in that case he is a GOOD driver and if he doesn't than he is BAD
So the end thing is that why we criticize others by saying GOOD/BAD when we know its all based on one's own convenience ... :-)